Beyond hard rules, there is "Etiquette" the unwritten social contract that keeps the chat fun for everyone. At FurDU, we want everyone to feel free to engage, But some forms of engagement are corrosive and actively harm everyone involved.
The "Mini-Mod" vs Reporting
Mini-Modding is when users feel the need to do the admins job. This usually just starts fights.
Do: Reply to the message with
@admin and disengage.
The "Passive-Aggressive" Trap
Messages dripping in sarcasm or guilt tripping to express frustration puts an emotional burden on others.
Do: "I'm keen to play later if anyone is free!"
The "Trauma Dump" & Critiques
Trauma Dumping: Trauma dumping refers to sharing one’s traumatic past experiences all at once, without considering how it might impact the listener or if the timing is appropriate.
Unsolicited Critiques: Unless someone explicitly asks for critiques, assume they are just sharing their joy. Don't burst their bubble.
Slash Commands & Bots
Please avoid using "slash commands" (e.g. /warn, /ban) directly in the group, Even as a joke.
Please note, that pressing a pre-existing command will instantly send that command as yourself.
The "Purity Test" (Touchy Subjects)
We all have strong convictions, and as staff, we absoltuely support the rights for every human and very likely agree with you. However aggressively demanding that everyone else adhere to your specific moral code regarding media consumption rarely changes minds. it just starts fights.
Do: "I personally don't support X because of [Reason], but you do you." Alternatively, Change the Subject.